Zack Dessent, a board member of Chicago Pride Hockey, has witnessed a surge in interest for the organization following the success of the HBO Max series “Heated Rivalry.” The show, based on a novel by Rachel Reid, features the romantic entanglements of two closeted professional hockey players. In just the past two weeks, the nonprofit has received approximately 60 inquiries from individuals eager to join, demonstrating a growing appetite for inclusivity in the sport.
Dessent, a 33-year-old resident of Lakeview, reflects on the importance of representation in hockey, particularly given the National Hockey League’s (NHL) history of not having any openly gay active players. “Anytime that you can expand the game out to be more inclusive… I think is really important,” he said. The show has not only entertained audiences but has also served as a pivotal entry point for many into the LGBTQ+ hockey community.
From Fear to Acceptance
Dessent’s journey with hockey began in childhood, influenced by his older brother’s talent. Yet, he struggled with his identity, fearing bullying from teammates if they discovered he was gay. “The feeling of being different is a very scary thing,” he stated, echoing the emotional turmoil faced by the characters in “Heated Rivalry.”
After years away from the rink, Dessent returned to hockey seeking camaraderie among fellow LGBTQ+ individuals. “Playing as an adult has been the most fun I’ve ever had in my life,” he remarked. Since its founding in 2002, Chicago Pride Hockey has evolved from the Chicago Gay Hockey Association into a welcoming space for people of all identities. The organization now boasts around 100 players across four teams competing in various leagues throughout the region.
Building Community Through Hockey
The founder of Chicago Pride Hockey, Chuck Jacobson, was motivated by a similar league in New York to create a safe environment for LGBTQ+ players. He initially gathered 15 players to form the team, which has since collaborated with the Chicago Blackhawks on initiatives like the “Hockey is for Everyone” campaign.
Executive Director of the Chicago Blackhawks Foundation, Annie Davis-Korelc, commended the sense of belonging fostered by Chicago Pride Hockey. “We believe that hockey is for everyone,” she stated, emphasizing the importance of creating inclusive spaces in the sport.
The popularity of “Heated Rivalry” has sparked conversations about acceptance and representation within hockey. Players like Andrew Sobotka, a former president of Chicago Pride Hockey, noted that the show reflects the struggles of many athletes who feel compelled to hide their identities. “There are gay hockey players, and they very likely are high performing athletes,” he said.
As Chicago Pride Hockey continues to grow, the organization remains dedicated to providing a supportive environment. Players like Shelby Domabyl-Deiters, who joined about a year and a half ago, have found a sense of family within the team. “With Chicago Pride Hockey, it was like instant family,” she said, highlighting the community’s welcoming spirit.
The show’s impact extends beyond entertainment; it serves as a catalyst for dialogue among parents and players alike, reinforcing the idea that hockey can be a space for everyone. As Dessent noted, “We’re just happy that we can be that place where people can come and feel welcomed and supported.” The excitement surrounding “Heated Rivalry” has invigorated Chicago Pride Hockey, creating opportunities for new friendships and fostering a culture of acceptance in the sport.
