As the holiday season approaches, many Americans embrace the warmth of family gatherings and moments of reflection. However, for numerous military and veteran families, this time of year can bring intense challenges. Ken Fisher, chairman and CEO of the Fisher House Foundation, emphasizes the importance of recognizing the invisible burdens faced by service members, veterans, caregivers, and survivors during this period.
The holiday season often exacerbates feelings of grief, trauma, and isolation for those who have served in the military. Behind the festive celebrations lie individuals who have made significant sacrifices, including time away from loved ones and facing life-threatening situations. The emotional and psychological impact of their service does not simply fade when the calendar turns to December.
One of the most pressing issues for the military and veteran community is suicide. The statistics are alarming, with veterans experiencing rates of suicide significantly higher than the general population. These numbers represent not just data points; they signify sons and daughters, spouses, and parents who once dedicated themselves to serving their country, only to later find themselves in silent struggle.
During the holidays, the sense of loneliness can intensify. The weight of painful memories, financial strain, and family stress does not take a break for the season. For many, the feeling that others are celebrating can deepen their sense of isolation. At the Fisher House Foundation, staff witness this reality firsthand. Families often find themselves far from home, relying on the foundation’s support while their loved ones receive medical care. Caregivers face exhaustion yet remain committed, and parents strive to maintain stability for their children while grappling with their own challenges.
Supporting Military Families Through Connection
Over the past three decades, the Fisher House Foundation has learned that strong support systems are crucial for healing. When families feel supported, their recovery is often more robust. The foundation’s message is clear: ensuring care for military and veteran communities must extend beyond medical treatment. Access to mental health resources, financial assistance, and social connection is essential.
This holiday season, everyone is encouraged to take action. Fisher urges individuals to reach out to veterans or military families they know, especially if communication has been sparse. A simple call or text can make a significant difference. If someone is struggling, it is vital to help them find support and reinforce that seeking assistance is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Engagement can take many forms, whether volunteering time with organizations that provide direct support or simply being present for someone in need. The goal is to ensure that celebrations this season include compassion for those who may be facing difficulties.
Fisher concludes, “Let’s make sure our celebrations include compassion for those who may be struggling and a commitment to stand with them, not just now, but always.” The need for action is clear, and with collective effort, it is possible to create a supportive environment for those who have given so much for their country.
