URGENT UPDATE: A new etiquette dilemma emerges as social gatherings ramp up, prompting urgent advice from renowned etiquette expert Miss Manners. The issue revolves around the increasing practice of passing cellphones around dinner tables, raising health concerns, especially for individuals who are immunocompromised.
In a recent column, a concerned reader expressed discomfort when a friend continuously shares photos via their phone during meals, creating a potential health risk. With a partner at immunocompromised status, the reader fears germs and is looking for a polite way to refuse participation in this activity.
Miss Manners offers a simple solution: either have a private conversation with the friend to establish a device-free zone or, in the moment, gracefully intercept the phone before it reaches your husband. By standing up and showing appreciation for the photo while redirecting it to the next guest, you can maintain social grace without compromising health safety.
In another scenario, the etiquette expert addressed a reader’s concerns regarding a neighbor’s post-Christmas open house invitation, which lacked an RSVP request. With no telephone number provided, the reader felt unsure about their obligation to respond. Miss Manners clarifies that responding is essential, regardless of the lack of formal request, emphasizing that declining an invitation is just as courteous as accepting it.
The growing number of gatherings raises questions about social obligations, particularly when interests do not align. Miss Manners reassures readers that they are under no obligation to travel with friends who do not share their passions. Instead, she recommends avoiding detailed discussions about travel plans with friends, allowing for more personal time without guilt.
As gatherings become more frequent, the importance of etiquette in maintaining health and social comfort cannot be overstated. The advice from Miss Manners serves as a critical reminder for all to navigate these social landscapes effectively.
Stay tuned for more updates on social etiquette in our rapidly changing world, and share this article to help others with their social dilemmas.
