On February 5, 2024, the Gender Equity and Community Outreach club (GENCO) held a “Healthy Masculinities Panel” in Pettengill Hall, aimed at exploring the concept of masculinity and its implications in today’s society. The event featured moderator Dylan Patel and panelists Professor Michael Rocque, an associate professor of sociology and dean of the faculty, and Raymond Clothier, the interim multifaith chaplain.
The panel began with an emphasis on defining what constitutes healthy masculinity and how it can manifest in daily habits, routines, and conversations. Attendees were provided with canvases and markers, which are a staple of GENCO’s bi-weekly meetings, to engage in artistic expression and note-taking throughout the discussion.
During the event, Patel posed a series of questions to the panelists, delving into topics such as toxic masculinity and the spiritual dimensions of healthy masculinity. Rocque, when discussing role models, notably stated, “When I think of the most masculine man in the world, I don’t think of He-Man, I think of Mr. Rogers.” He articulated that true strength encompasses bravery, sensitivity, and conviction, moving beyond physical appearances.
Defining Masculinity and Its Social Constructs
The conversation also involved a deeper examination of masculinity as a social construct. Clothier highlighted this perspective, prompting Rocque to respond that while gender can be seen as constructed, its impact is profoundly real both socially and personally. “…it’s visceral,” Rocque asserted, indicating that understanding masculinity requires acknowledging its complexities as both a societal construct and a lived experience.
As the dialogue progressed, Patel inquired about the essential elements that contribute to healthy masculinity. Clothier suggested that the keys to fostering healthy masculinity closely mirror those of cultivating healthy relationships. He noted that empathy and understanding are crucial for connecting with others, which in turn nurtures the practice of healthy masculinity.
Brandon Ouellette, a staff member from the Bates Counseling and Psychological Services (CAPS), supported this notion. He emphasized that talk therapy can be an effective method for addressing toxic masculinity and moving towards healthier expressions of manhood. Ouellette encouraged students to reach out to CAPS, promoting it as an inclusive space for all.
Student Cathy Shi raised an important question regarding “performative masculinity” and whether it is limiting to criticize men for this form of expression. Clothier responded affirmatively, expressing his fondness for quarter-zips and matcha, while Rocque advocated for allowing men and masculine-identifying individuals the freedom to experiment and make mistakes in defining their own masculinity.
Encouragement for Ongoing Dialogue
As the panel concluded, Jamie Shelton, GENCO Secretary and assistant news editor for The Student, encouraged students to participate in future meetings for more casual discussions. She invited participants to engage in conversations about gender through feminist, queer, and intersectional lenses.
For those interested in attending upcoming GENCO events, further information is available on Bates Engage, providing an opportunity for continued exploration of these critical topics within the community.
